Many a times we find ourselves in a tough situation when something in our life is about to change. We fear that, that change could carry positive or negative or maybe both effects. Its human tendency, that a person will feel as a victim if those effects are negative and take the responsibility, if that change poses positive impacts. Why is that people blame destiny when things go wrong and are ready to tell numerous reasons why they were able to set the things just right? The question here should be is this right approach or rather how to handle the situation when things go out of hands.
Do we accept the unanticipated situations in our life? We normally don’t. Living in order makes us feel comfortable and we never want to feel uncomfortable, so we see those situations as co-webs. What if, we learn to live with the changes in our life and harness the positive part? Certainly, our life would become much better.